Wednesday, November 2, 2011



First things First !!!

Attracting girls is often difficult for many people so don’t feel alone if this applies to you. Whether you are looking to land a playmate or the girl next door type, you can do it, no matter what you look like, as long as you follow some simple rules. Follow these suggestions and you will learn how to attract girls.


The sooner you realize that not very girl is going to be interested in you, the better off you will be. Don’t be disappointed or shocked if a girl you target shows zero interest in you. It doesn’t matter because as long as you keep trying, you will attract a girl. Your realization of this fact is the first step you need to take.


The Best Time


When you find a girl that interests you, make sure to smile at her. Girls love a guy who smiles, as it shows confidence in himself, which women really like in a man. If she smiles back, it usually means it is safe to approach her. But, make sure you choose the right moment to go forward. If she is busy in conversation already, it could be a mistake to approach, because nobody likes to be interrupted. Just be patient and wait for her to go for a drink or separate herself from the person or group before you make your move. While you wait you can keep eye contact going and smile easily when you look at her.


Knowing What You Will Say


This is not the time to use some cheesy pick up lines you found on the internet about picking up girls. Before you approach any girl, you must consider what you might want to say. Think of something simple and appropriate to the environment you are in. Anything easy like commenting on the music at the club should help you to start the conversation.


Approaching Her


Well, of course, the next thing to do is to approach the girl. Relax, do not be nervous or self conscious when you walk over. After you have initiated the conversation, be sure to listen to her and what she has to say. Continue the conversation by building on what she has said. You should try to show your sense of humour without being crass or rude. Do not act needy or appear desperate. Girls want what they think they can’t get. Once you feel comfortable with her you should try some light physical contact, like touching her arm or hand. If she doesn’t retreat or pull back, you are showing intimacy and doing well. At this point you should ask for her number and make your exit. You want to leave her intrigued and wanting more.


The key to successfully approaching any women is to relax and not become panicked every time you find yourself in close contact with a pretty girl. While there may be times that you fail, don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back from conversing with and approaching women. Be confident, follow these rules, and eventually you will learn how to attract girls anytime you desire.

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