Because let’s face it. Life sucks without a quality partner in crime.
So how can you go from a guy that has no girlfriend to a guy that has one in a rather short amount of time? Here’s some practical tips I wish I had gotten the heads up on when I started out.
1. Ask yourself “Why do I want a girlfriend?”
It’s important to take a step back and ask yourself this pivotal question.
Do you want a girlfriend because you think it will make your life a million times better? Do you want a girlfriend to fill a void? Do you want a girlfriend so you can share epic adventures?
What is it? Be honest with yourself.
Take the time to list out a couple compelling reasons why. They are your motivators.
They are your gas that drives your car and gives you the juice to move forward. Without them, this goal will just end up being like another unfulfilled new years resolution.
2. Learn the basics of approaching women.
If you want a scorching hot girlfriend, you’re going to have to get out there and proactively meet her. That means, yes, you’re going to need some tools in your bat belt to get the job done.
If you’re like I was, you’re probably nervous as hell about the thought of strolling up to an attractive woman, starting a conversation, and walking away with her number. Back in the day, it just seemed like a pipe dream to me.
But I’m telling you, it’s far from that.
Commit right here and now to learning how to approach women. You can no longerwait for women to fall from the sky onto your lap. You can no longer wait for a beautiful woman to approach you. You can no longer wait to hook up with one of the girls in your social circle. It’s just too limited, takes too damn long, and you’re probably already in the “friend zone.”